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New evidence in the nature v nurture debate

December 1, 2015 Nancy Holliman

Researchers at Emory University have found that smells, and possibly other experiences, change the DNA in mice and these changes are then passed on to their offspring. You can read the actual science here and here, and there is a video that explains it here.

Contemplating the possibility that human DNA changes could behave similarly has amazing ramifications for our mental and physical health--and our history. Perhaps this has something to do with why some battles become so entrenched for generations.

It certainly impacts how I think about working with clients who have suffered trauma. Is there a genetic component that makes certain people more vulnerable to trauma complications? If so, this may explain why somatic therapies benefit trauma patients in ways that pure psychotherapy doesn’t. We know that trauma changes the brain. The fact that it may also change our actual genetic structure isn’t a huge leap.

This may also help explain how and why some other pathologies seem to be more common among people who have suffered trauma. And it may very well stretch beyond just trauma. Who knows what our great, great, greats may have experienced and passed down to us? Fascinating.

Photo credit: SchrodingersCat19 

In Blog Posts Tags epigenetics, DNA, trauma
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Thinking and Spores

November 5, 2015 Nancy Holliman

I’ve been thinking about thinking and thought. Remembering back to a Major Moment of Insight I had while meditating, when, possibly for the first time, I truly saw a thought take shape, hold its own, and pass away. It was momentous because it was so very clear. Meditation teachers had told me this happens, and there it was, happening right before my own mind’s eye! Interestingly, this put some space between me and my thoughts. I really saw that the thoughts were separate from me, that in some way thoughts happened to me. Or at me. Or around me. Or with me. But they weren’t me. Interesting.

Some time later a meditation teacher invited me to see if I could catch the very beginning of the thought, to see where it came from. I watched with an eagle eye. I watched and paid attention and watched. And yet I could never quite see it when it happened. One moment nothing there, no thought. The next moment, the very beginning of the thought. It had already appeared, and I’d missed the generation.  Somehow I’d missed the crux of nothing becoming something. Crazy maddening! The same teacher invited me to watch where the thought went. Same thing happened. One moment it’d be there, with me watching and focusing like white on rice, and the next it was gone. Where did it go? No idea. Just gone. How did I miss it?!?

In some weird way, it seems like thoughts are like mushrooms.

It’s rained a lot lately. This morning I walked into the back yard and there were mushrooms everywhere! Just like that. The spores must’ve been present yet invisible. And because of rain and light and temperature and whatever else, the mushrooms pop up. In the same way, when conditions are just so, the thought arises. And then it goes. So the conditions that give rise to thought are kind of like spores—easy not to see, but there nonetheless.

Part of what happens in meditation is that people begin to see the thought process, the coming and going, the patterns, the constant movement of the mind. They get to know how their minds work, how their mind reacts and processes its conditions. In therapy people get to really look at and examine their mind’s conditions. It’s possible to understand what the conditions are, why they are present, how they are connected to other ideas, stories, and conditions. It’s even possible to root out problematic or ineffective thoughts so that they aren’t fertile any more—to get to a point where it’s possible to have thoughts, to not believe them, to not be ruled by them, and to live with them in some sort of agreeable way.

This speaks to one way I like to use meditation as a therapeutic practice: to help people figure out the roots of their thinking, to explore it and understand it, so that they can then make effective choices about which thoughts to entertain and which to disregard. We really don’t have to believe all our thoughts. They’re just the mushrooms of our minds.

Photo credit: Elizabeth Paley mightoutashould.blogspot.com
In Meditation, Blog Posts Tags meditation, thinking, mushrooms, spores, cognitive therapy
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